The Date Went Great – Now How Do You Make That First Move?

January 26, 2015 / Online Dating Advice / 2 Comments /

First Move

Your first date went great and your stuck on making the next move, follow this Asian dating advice to see what may help.

Step 1: Read the signals Before initiating any kind of move, look for body language clues such as prolonged eye contact to help you work out whether you’ll get a positive response. Asian dating advice applies to most Asian women. A woman may be more willing than usual to firstexpose certain areas of her body like her neck or wrists. She may touch you, or display self-grooming gestures. A man may exhibit more animistic signals or ownership gestures, to impress a potential mate. These may include resting an arm on the back of her chair, puffing out his chest or widening his shoulders. Both sexes may engage in ‘mirroring’, which is subconsciously copying the actions of the other person’s body positions.

Step 2: Conversation If they find someone attractive, men and women won’t necessarily say what they’re really thinking. Instead of listening to what is being said, concentrate on how it is being said. If he says; ‘I’m interested in art’. He may mean I am interested in you” If she says; ‘What’s your favorite surrealist painting?’ She may mean; ‘Are you genuinely interested?’ If he says; ‘I love Dali’s The Persistence of Memory’. He may mean; ‘I’m trying really hard here firstbecause you’re hot’. If she says; ‘I’ve got that on my bedroom wall’. She may mean; ‘I want you to see it’.

Step 3: If the woman is making the first move The male form is majestic, enticing and readily available. Approach with free abandon and curious hands. Be a predator. Remove any unnecessary items of clothing. The only potential problem that could arise will occur when choosing topics of conversation. Don’t mention ex-boyfriends, health problems, or your imminent desire for babies.

Step 4: If the man is making the first move The female form is mysterious, enticing and notoriously difficult to get hold of. Approach with caution. Certain parts of the body should not be touched initially, like the breasts or bum. Instead, try lightly touching less intimate areas of the body – such as the upper arm, or the outer leg nearest to you.

Step 5: The kiss If they haven’t rejected your advances so far, then you can firststart to feel more confident about stealing a kiss. For specific tips on kissing, watch ‘How to kiss someone passionately’. It takes guts to go for a kiss, and if you are feeling out of your comfort zone, try to relax, as lack of confidence is rarely attractive to the opposite sex. Maintain eye contact, lean in and pause when your faces are close but not touching, to allow the other person space to escape or, hopefully, lean in too.


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